While planning a wedding may not scream adventure to most, I’ve decided that the next fifteen months are going to be just that – an adventure.
We got engaged two months ago and having procrastinated for as long as humanly possibly, we’ve been begrudgingly starting to work on plans little by little. This week we found ourselves in the paint aisle at Home Depot, staring at a rainbow of chips and having a small meltdown. He was holding a fistful of navy blues and grays while I was picking out shades of wine and rose.
We ended up discarding everything in our hands and going to look at power tools, him fed-up and myself overwhelmed. It occurred to me while looking at belt sanders that it was sort of funny. I pointed out how the guy behind the paint counter must be witness to countless divorces and we both laughed and headed back to the paint aisle.
We settled on a joint color scheme (red wine, heather grey, cream, coral and sage for you curious few!) and right then and there I decided that this whole process is going to be an adventure. No matter how many things go wrong, how many stressful plans there are to make I am going to choose to laugh instead of let it affect me. Our feelings are choices each and every day and I choose to live in a spirit of adventure.
Its easy to get caught up in the mindset that adventure is relegated to the weekends, to hikes and camp trips and plane rides to exotic destinations. That adventure can’t occur every day. But to me, adventure is a mindset.
Adventure is choosing a new brand of protein bar at the grocery store. Adventure is stopping on the way home to take a picture of the sunset. Adventure is midnight milkshakes.
This past week some of my favorite adventure buddies agreed to drive two hours to the middle of nowhere in my overheating car on a weeknight, all to find a place I had seen on Instagram. I had let myself get caught in the rut of exciting weekends and mundane weekdays and decided it was time for an adventure.
Adventure is a choice and it can happen at any moment of any day.
Don’t get stuck living for the weekends or the vacations. There’s going to be things we have to do like work, or planning weddings and we can choose to let them drag, to be stressed and upset by them, or we can choose adventure and let our whole life be wonderful and wild.
Here’s to your next adventure, whether it be Sprouts or Singapore.